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Defeating the De-Motivator
Posted by admin in Career Development, empowerment on October 18th, 2009
Doubt is a silent killer. We transmit feelings of doubt to others through subtleties in our body language, facial expression and tone of voice. It is picked up subconsciously by those with whom we communicate. Worse than that, we communicate it to ourselves, and it seeps into our performance. Doubt is the De-Motivator and all too often it prevents us from even trying.
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Empowering Relationship Reflections
Posted by admin in Partnership, Relationship, Uncategorized, empowerment on September 11th, 2009
What Are Our Mirror Reflections Trying to Teach Us?
By Phylameana lila Desy, About.com
People whose personalities and actions tend to push our buttons the most are generally our greatest teachers. These individuals serve as our mirrors and teach us what needs to be revealed about ourselves. Seeing what we don’t like in others helps us look deeper inside ourselves for similar traits and challenges that need healing, balancing, or changing.
When someone is first asked to understand that an irritating person is merely offering him a mirror image of himself, he will strongly resist this idea. Rather, he will argue that he is not the angry, violent, depressed, guilt-ridden, critical, or complainer person that his mirror/teacher is reflecting. The problem lies with the other person, right? Wrong, not even by a long shot. It would be convenient if we could always place the blame on the other person, but this is not always so easy. First ask yourself “If the problem truly is the other fellow’s and not my own then why does being around that person affect me so negatively?”
Our Mirrors May Reflect:
- Our Shortcomings
- Because character flaws, weaknesses, etc. are more easily seen in others than in ourselves our mirrors help us to be able to see our short comings more clearly.
- Magnified Pictures
- Mirroring is often magnified to enhance getting our attention. What we see is enhanced to look larger than life so we won’t overlook the message, making sure we get the BIG PICTURE. For example: Although you are not even close to being the overbearing critical type of character that your mirror is reflecting, seeing this behavior in your mirror will help you see how your nit-picking habits are not serving you.
- Repressed Emotions
- Our mirrors will often reflect emotions that we have comfortably repressed over time. Seeing someone else display unleashed similar emotions may very well touch on our stuffed feelings to help bring them to the surface for balancing/healing.
Relationship Mirrors
Our family, friends, and coworkers don’t recognize the mirroring roles they are acting out for us at a conscious level. Nonetheless, it is no coincidence that we are conjoined within our family units and our relationships to learn from one another. Our family members (parents, children, siblings) often play major roles of mirroring for us. This is because it is more difficult for us to run and hide from them. Besides, avoiding our mirrors is nonproductive because, sooner or later, a bigger mirror will appear to present, perhaps in a different way, exactly what you are trying to avoid.
Repeating Mirror Reflections
Ultimately, by avoiding a particular person we hope that our lives will be less stressful, but it doesn’t necessarily work out that way. Why do you suppose some people tend to attract partners with similar issues (alcoholics, abusers, cheaters, etc.) repeatedly? If we succeed at getting away from a person without learning what we need to know from the relationship we can expect to meet up with another person who will very soon reflect the same image upon us. Ahhhh…. now a second opportunity will surface for us to take inventory of our issues. And if not then, a third, and so forth until we get the BIG picture and begin the process of change/acceptance.
Shifting Our Perspectives
When we are confronted with a personality that we find bothersome or uncomfortable to be around it can be a challenge to comprehend that it is offering us a grand opportunity to learn about ourselves. By shifting our perspectives and attempting to understand what our teachers are showing us in their mirror reflections we can begin to take baby steps toward accepting or healing those wounded and fragmented parts within ourselves. As we learn what we need to do and adjust our lives accordingly, our mirrors will change. People will come and go from our lives, as we will always attract new mirror images for us to look at as we progress.
Serving as Mirrors for Others
We also serve as mirrors for others without consciously realizing it. We are both students and teachers in this life. Knowing this makes me wonder what types of lessons I am offering others by my actions each day. But that is the flip side of the mirroring concept. For now I’m trying to focus on my own reflections and what the people in my current circumstances are trying to teach me.
Life is a continuous and miraculous healing journey!
Copyright © 2003 Phylameana lila Desy
Super Woman — Kiera Brinkley, Quadruple Amputee Dancer
Posted by admin in empowerment, inspiration on September 2nd, 2009
Dancing is one activity Kiera Brinkley “shouldn’t” be able to do.
In a wheelchair since a quadruple amputation at age 2, the 16-year-old has nonetheless stricken the word “disability” from her vocabulary to pursue a dance career. Recently she proved just how able she is by performing at Juilliard, the prestigious New York City arts school.
Why We Love Her: As a toddler, Brinkley, of Portland, Ore., contracted an infection called pneumococcosis and lost her arms and legs. That didn’t stop her from learning to love to dance, especially to R&B music. While she’s worked with coaches, she usually choreographs her own routines, which include some pretty intense acrobatic moves.
Article Writter By Lauren Fritsky for www.LemonDrop.com
4 Steps to Living Your Vision By Marsh Engle
Posted by admin in Feminine Success, Positive Actions, Vision, empowerment on August 25th, 2009
Today’s an anniversary for me. It’s been eight years since my first book was published. And, over ten since I began to investigate what allows one person to continuously achieve spectacular outcomes every day without fail while others experience what appears to be an endless stream of bumps along their journey to success.
Here’s what I’ve discovered: Success is in the quality of our choice of action!
All of the high achievers I’ve met and interviewed have one very important thing in common: They each have a practiced system of success and it’s one filled with the attitudes, habits, rituals and certainty that serve rather than distract them from their vision.
Here’s what else I’ve discovered: We cannot change what we refuse to see, deny or acknowledge. In other words, it pays big dividends to get real, take pure responsibility and be deeply honest with ourselves. Know what you require in your life and allow these elements to be your continuous point of reference that guides your quality of choice and action.
The pay-off: Your actions are inspired, your enthusiasm high and your results in alignment with your greatest vision!
Are you ready to bring your vision into focus and empower the actions in your life? Begin by experimenting with the 4 Steps to Living Your Vision:
1. INVESTIGATE. Start by taking a look at your current patterns of thought, habits of action and energy depleting attitudes – all of them. If you are like most of us, it’s very likely that you’ve unconsciously practiced many of the same routines day in and day out your entire life. ; As you become aware of any limiting habits of thinking, choice of language and actions, take note. Acknowledge them. This first step is simply about gaining awareness. No need to judge. Simply notice.
2. DECIDE. As you begin to take notice of your conscious and unconscious actions that have become your way of life, decide which ones tend to deplete your creativity and which are empowering and energizing. The habits and attitudes to hang onto are the ones that propel you forward and serve your highest vision. In many cases, these are the ones that also positively impact the people around you. Disempowering ones are those that steal your sense of connection, joy and fulfillment – these are the ones that stand between you and living your vision.
3. REPLACE. Since every choice … including our ways of perception … tend to become routine very rapidly, the best way to eliminate an old disempowering attitude is to replace it with a fresh point of view. Take a look at limiting behaviors and consider a new way of approach. Become innovative. Stretch yourself. Transform. Modify your choices and replace them with vibrant new actions.
4. PRIORITIZE. Start with small steps. Prioritize the patterns that you want to tackle first. Ask yourself which ones … when altered … will have the greatest impact in your life. Then, focus on making small changes in those areas of your life. Remember, what motivates and propels a purpose-full life is your passion and enthusiasm. Break through the barriers of progress one attitude at a time – as you feel ready.
And, most of all, always keep in mind: A vision without action is simply a dream. An action without vision is merely a passing of time. But vision with action can change your life and the world.
“It’s a massive voice-not a single girl speaking alone.”
Posted by admin in empowerment on August 12th, 2009
The world is waking up to the fact that the greatest force for global change is growing up before our very eyes.
A new session unexpectedly stole the show at the 2009 World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland. Early on a Saturday morning-when most delegates would be expected to be sleeping-a panel called “The Girl Effect” played to a standing room-only crowd. A buzz circulated the packed room, which included heads of state, CEOs, international banks, and philanthropic leaders such as Melinda Gates and Nobel Peace Prize Laureate Muhammad Yunus.
Why all the fuss? Lee Howell, Davos Annual Meeting Director, says girls were on the agenda for the first time in the meeting’s 39-year history because, as he puts it, “The field work, economic analysis, and experience all point to the powerful effect you’ll have if you invest in girls. People have to do more with less. If that’s the context we’re operating in, then the girl effect is an answer.”
Julie & Julia! An Inspiration of Creativity!
Posted by admin in Career Development, Feminine Success, Uncategorized, empowerment on August 10th, 2009
In 2002, Julie Powell was just an average 30-year-old New Yorker who wanted something more than a dead-end day job. She turned to a cookbook for inspiration, but it wasn’t just any cookbook. Julie decided to cook every single recipe in Julia Child’s Mastering the Art of French Cooking in one year and chronicle the ups and downs of her attempt in a blog. The blog was a hit, and soon Julie got a book deal to write about the experience.
Her book Julie & Julia: My Year of Cooking Dangerously became part of a screenplay for a new movie written and directed by the famed Nora Ephron. Oprah.com’s Erin White talks with Julie about her journey through food blogging, cooking and writing and about what it’s like to see her story come to life on the big screen.Read more.
Jada Pinkett Smith’s Aha! Moment
Posted by admin in Career Development, Feminine Success, Positive Actions, Uncategorized, empowerment on July 11th, 2009
She tried to micromanage the world. By letting go and doing less, she realized she could actually be more.
About a year and a half ago, I realized I was about to hit a wall. My husband, Will Smith, and I were going through a major transition-besides acting, directing, writing, and producing, we’d started the Will and Jada Smith Family Foundation to support urban families through education, health, and arts programs. At the same time, I was trying to keep my family life healthy and strong and take care of our kids, Trey, 16; Jaden, 10; and Willow, 8. I’ve always been a caretaker; I think a lot of women are. We take care of everybody else first, and very rarely do we think about ourselves.
I grew up in a neighborhood in Baltimore that was like a war zone, so I never learned to trust that there were people who could help me. I was also stuck in the idea that taking care of others was the way to create good relationships. As a result, I tried to micromanage my world.
One day I was so overwhelmed I thought I might be crushed under the weight of all the responsibilities I’d taken on. I pray and meditate every day, and when I started meditating that morning, I felt that God was telling me, Surrender or explode. All of a sudden, I was released. The stress was gone, and in that stillness came the solution: The less I do, the better things will go.
But it’s one thing to have an idea and another to grasp it. Okay, so I realized that by doing less, I can be more. But what did that mean? And how could I apply that to my life? I started with my family. It’s not just about being with them; it’s about being present while I’m with them. That area had been slipping a bit, but on this day I focused on my kids. I turned off my BlackBerry and didn’t take a single call or check my e-mail. You know how you feel as though if you stop, the whole world will fall apart? Well, it didn’t. For a while, everybody was like, “Where’s Jada? We’ve got to get this answer! This needs to happen now!” But it all went fine without me.
So the next thing I did was trust that the people we’d hired could do their jobs. When I was trying to control them, they felt suffocated and invalidated. When I let go, they felt empowered, which created an atmosphere of harmony, and there was peace within the everyday chaos. I learned that surrounding myself with people who are able to help me is like being surrounded by tangible godliness.
Since then, it’s been a year of bliss. I don’t have to go around trying to save everybody anymore; that’s not my job. I took off the Control Freak crown, and now my headaches are over. That tiara may have been pretty, but it was just too damn tight.
- As told to Suzan Colón
Ten Inspirational Women Travelers
Posted by admin in Travel, empowerment on July 4th, 2009
World Hum Travel Corresponedent Julia Ross celebrates women who have blazed their own trails!
No, we likely wouldn’t publish a list of 10 inspirational male travelers. But men and women experience travel differently and face different obstacles in making travel a part of their lives, so let’s recognize a few women who have blazed the trail. Here, in no particular order, are 10 women—past and present—who have inspired others through their travels, whether by making the world a richer place, contributing to cross-cultural understanding, or simply pursuing their dreams.
1) Maureen Wheeler
The Belfast-born cofounder of publishing powerhouse Lonely Planet, Wheeler and her husband Tony get our vote as the patron saints of independent travel. The couple wrote their first guidebook, “Across Asia on the Cheap,” at their kitchen table in 1973, detailing a six-month overland trip from London to Australia. It spawned a global empire. By 2008, what began as an effort to guide travelers across the Hippie Trail had yielded annual sales of more than six million books per year. Maureen still travels and writes. Lonely Planet guides have taken countless travelers faithfully through China, Thailand, New York City and beyond.
2) Martha Gellhorn
One of the great U.S. war correspondents of the 20th century, Gellhorn covered every major conflict from the Spanish Civil War to the U.S. invasion of Panama, describing the human toll of war for hungry American readers. She began her career in 1930s Spain, crossing over land, alone, with only a little cash and a knapsack. She went ashore as a stretcher-bearer with U.S. troops at Normandy; reported from hospitals and orphanages during the Vietnam War; and continued writing about the wider world well into her 80s. This wonderful Salon obituary provides testament to Gellhorn’s character—an agile and curious mind to the end.
3) Julia Child
She’s been gone a few years now, but oh, how her legacy lives on. Long before she became a beloved presence in America’s kitchens, Child satisfied a thirst for adventure by signing on as one of the first female spies in the OSS (forerunner to the CIA), which posted her to Sri Lanka and China during World War II. From there, she married into the Foreign Service, landed in Paris in 1948, enrolled at Le Cordon Bleu, and the rest is history. Child’s soufflés and sauces have inspired everyone from Emeril Lagasse to Alice Waters to striving culinary bloggers, revolutionizing American cooking along the way. For her life’s work as perhaps the best cultural ambassador ever to bridge two sides of the Atlantic, she received both the French Legion of Honor and the U.S. Presidential Medal of Freedom.
4) Margaret Bourke-White
Another traveler who came into her own during wartime, this groundbreaking photojournalist seemed to be everywhere at once, snapping history’s great moments for Fortune and Life magazines. The first woman to be allowed to work in combat zones during World War II, Bourke-White photographed the conflict from all angles—North Africa, Italy, Germany and Russia—at times tagging along with Patton’s Army. After the war, she continued to ply her trade in places like India and Pakistan, where she recorded the violence of partition and took iconic photos of Gandhi, for which she remains well-known.
5) Annie Griffiths Belt
When Belt’s work goes on display at National Geographic headquarters in Washington, DC, where she works as a staff photographer, I make sure to visit. Israeli soldiers, Burmese refugees, Hong Kong opera stars—Belt’s images lay bare the joy and pain of the human experience and somehow bring the world a little closer. What’s even better: The woman’s got a dream job but also makes time to produce pictures for aid organizations like Habitat for Humanity. Her photo memoir, A Camera, Two Kids and A Camel, chronicles her travels to the world’s far outposts while toting two kids. As any working mom will tell you: Impressive.
6) Melinda Gates
When you’re one of the world’s wealthiest philanthropists, it’s probably easy to delegate. But former Microsoft executive Melinda Gates is out on the front lines, traveling to places like Kenya and Bangladesh to try to figure out what works in the fight against global poverty and disease. When the co-chairs of the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation travel together, it’s Melinda who connects with people in the tuberculosis ward, balancing her husband’s technocratic approach. But it’s her leadership in tackling some of the world’s great transnational threats that makes her a role model for anyone who cares about the plight of people beyond their own back yard.
7) Gertrude Bell
Was there anything this woman couldn’t do? Archaeologist, linguist, writer, diplomat—Bell was a renaissance woman to be reckoned with. One of Britain’s leading Arabists, she spent much of her life roaming the deserts of the Middle East and is credited as being the architect of modern-day Iraq. Interestingly, her letters from that country were being circulated at the Pentagon as recently as three years ago in an effort to make sense of post-invasion chaos.
Samantha Power
What to say about the brilliant, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist, lawyer and academic? Power’s incisive reporting from places like Sudan, Bosnia and Rwanda has secured her place as one of the world’s leading thinkers on U.S. foreign policy, human rights and genocide. For the rest of us, outside the foreign policy stratosphere, her writing exposes thorny issues that lie at the nexus of politics and culture—issues we debate with ourselves and others as we travel. Power recently took a senior post on the National Security Council, but here’s hoping her journalism sees a second life. The woman’s still under 40, after all.
9) Naomi Duguid
It’s fitting that Canadian food writer Duguid met her husband, Jeffrey Alford, on a rooftop in Lhasa in 1985. She gave up the practice of law that summer, and the two decided to devote their lives to traveling across Asia, photographing and writing about food cultures for a series of award-winning cookbooks. A recent New Yorker profile dubbed Duguid and Alford “culinary geographers,” a role that’s showcased nicely in their most recent book, Beyond the Great Wall: Recipes and Travels in the Other China. Just as the book describes the pulled noodles and flatbreads of China’s minority regions, it examines how these cultures are struggling to survive in the face of massive Han Chinese migration. Given their political bent, it’ll be interesting to see how Duguid and Alford treat their next subject: Myanmar (Burma).
10) Jo Rawlins Gilbert
Never heard of Ms. Gilbert? She appeared in a recent New York Times story on the first group of tourists to visit post-war Iraq. There she was, in the lede paragraph: A 79-year-old retired probation officer from California who said of Baghdad, “If it opened up, I wanted to go.” Googling Gilbert turns up her wonderfully written travel blog, in which she has chronicled recent trips to Mali (camping) and Jordan (digging among ruins) in a wry and practical voice. She’s been to Afghanistan, Syria and Yemen, and says Kashmir and North Korea are on her list. Best of all, she provides cost and tour information for each trip, making even the wildest adventure sound perfectly within reach.
About the Writer: Julia Ross is a Washington, DC-based writer and frequent contributor to World Hum. She has lived in China and Taiwan, where she was a Fulbright scholar and Mandarin student. Her writing has appeared in the Washington Post, Time, Christian Science Monitor, Plenty and other publications.
About World Hum: World Hum is for the travel-addicted. It’s dedicated to harnessing the power of the internet to tell great travel stories—through writing, conversation, slideshows and video. Its focus is the geography of wanderlust. Most travel publications focus on destinations, offering tips on where to go, where to stay, what to do. We started World Hum in May 2001 because we wanted to focus not only on destinations but also on the journey, on travel in the broadest sense of the word. We don’t see travel only as a way to spend a couple weeks’ vacation every year. For us, travel is a way to see the world when we’re abroad, but also a way to see the world when we’re at home. Travel is a state of mind. World Hum is dedicated to exploring travel in all its facets: how it changes us, how it changes the way we see the world, and finally, how travel itself is changing the world.
Envision the Possibilities!
Posted by admin in Career Development, Feminine Success, Positive Actions, Uncategorized, empowerment, inspiration on May 28th, 2009
The Amazing Woman Envision Statement
In this moment I see myself as the amazing woman I am.
On this day, May 28, 2009,
I pledge my full attention and intention toward living my most vibrant and amazing Self.
May I be open to the quiet whispers of the Divine voice that gently guides me to soar freely and completely in all ways.
May I find the vibrant trust and the creative confidence to follow this wisdom guidance allowing any thoughts or feelings that stand in the way of my pure intent to softly melt away.
In doing so, may I clearly recognize myself
as a brilliant, shining example of someone
who listens to her inner wisdom and trusts intuitive callings.
May I stay focused on my highest vision,
seeing and feeling it as being already demonstrated.
By doing so, I make a solid commitment to myself
to project the power to magnify and bring my creative brilliance to life.
I celebrate this as the amazing woman I am.
© The Six Essentials 2008 Marsh Engle Media. All rights reserved.
Do not copy without written consent of Copyright owner.
First Lady in Control of Building Her Image
Posted by admin in empowerment on May 19th, 2009
WASHINGTON — Vogue magazine, the fashion world’s chronicler of first ladies, bedecked Hillary Rodham Clinton in black velvet and Laura Bush in blue silk. But not Michelle Obama. She insisted on choosing her own dress (a sleeveless, magenta silk number) and using her own hair and makeup stylists for the glossy photograph splashed across Vogue’s March cover.
This was nothing new for Mrs. Obama, who has pointedly controlled her look on the covers of People, Essence, More and O, Oprah Winfrey’s magazine. Editors at Essence, who suggested colors, styles and accessories, said her staff did not call to acknowledge their overtures. Editors at More said they were dumbfounded when, after painstaking negotiations, Mrs. Obama showed up at the photo shoot with a different dress from the one she had promised to wear. (She ultimately agreed to go back to her first choice, a pink Maria Pinto sheath.)
“We were like, ‘Excuse me, we tell you what to wear,’ ” said Lesley Jane Seymour, the editor-in-chief of More, who said Mrs. Obama refused to wear anything other than her own clothes for their October cover. “She wanted none of that. She was creating the cover. She was creating the image. There’s definitely a will of steel there.”
Indeed, the new first lady is methodically shaping her public image, and in ways that extend far beyond fashion.
She has given coveted interviews primarily to women’s magazines and news outlets that have allowed her to highlight her domestic side: her focus on motherhood and her efforts to settle her family in the White House; her interest in gardening and healthy living; her affinity for mixing off-the-rack and designer goods; and her efforts to open up the White House to ordinary Americans.
Mrs. Obama’s aides meet regularly with the president’s senior communications team and select public events that will maximize her message. She sticks closely to her script, delivering lively, brief speeches that rarely stray from her prepared remarks and steer clear of controversy. She talks about her support for volunteerism and military families, but seldom discusses race, her keen interest in influencing public policy or her place in history as the first African-American first lady.
By focusing on her domestic persona and harnessing the fascination with her family, the first lady and her communications team have emerged as the key architects of one of the most remarkable political transformations in years. Only 10 months ago, Mrs. Obama was described as an angry black woman by some conservatives and as a liability to her husband. Now, she is widely admired for her warmth, and her vibrant and accessible manner, and her race seems almost an afterthought to many Americans. She has the highest favorability ratings of any incoming first lady since 1980, and is even more popular than the president.
Obama administration officials say this shift has occurred organically as more people have had the opportunity to see and hear the first lady for themselves rather than through the lenses of her critics.
But David Axelrod, the president’s senior adviser, does not deny that the efforts of the first lady’s team — headed by communications director Camille Johnston and press secretary Katie McCormick Lelyveld — have also influenced perceptions.
“I wouldn’t say we’re trying to soften her,” Mr. Axelrod said. “But is there an effort to get people to know her? Yes. We want people to know her. There were caricatures of her during part of the campaign.”
“Those interviews are valuable,” he said of Mrs. Obama’s conversations with celebrity and women’s magazines, “because they tend to focus on her as a person and that’s important for people to know.”
The image that Mrs. Obama is projecting, however, fails to fully reflect the multifaceted first lady. A Harvard-trained lawyer and former hospital vice president, she is also a tough-minded professional who cares deeply about influencing public policy and sometimes promotes legislation at her events. Her top aides, for example, are often immersed in policy discussions in the West Wing that are not publicized by the White House.
Mrs. Obama’s chief of staff attends the morning meeting run by Rahm Emanuel, the president’s chief of staff, and her policy director often sits in on weekly briefings with the president’s domestic policy adviser.
Mrs. Obama’s aides are working with the president’s domestic policy team to help develop strategies to support working parents. And they weighed in on the selection of the recently nominated chief executive of Corporation for National and Community Service, which oversees AmeriCorps, the national service agency that has been allotted $1.1 billion in the president’s budget, administration officials say.
In fact, Mrs. Obama is so passionate about national service that she recently buttonholed a senior lawmaker at a White House dinner and urged him to move quickly out of committee the legislation intended to expand AmeriCorps. (The president signed that legislation into law this week.)
Some people who know Mrs. Obama lament that this side of her is so rarely on public display. Some blame the news media for being more interested in her exercise routines than in her thinking on big issues. Others believe that her aides are placating those voters who prefer more traditional first ladies.
“We’re not getting all of Michelle Obama, and that’s a shame,” said Connie Schultz, a journalist and author whose husband, Senator Sherrod Brown, the Ohio Democrat, is friendly with the president.
“It’s the softer, domestic side that we’re seeing, which appeals to a lot of people,” Ms. Schultz said. “But a lot of us are cheering her on and hoping we’re going to hear more from that public policy side of Michelle Obama. Maybe it’s the old-fashioned feminist in me. I want to keep celebrating that brain.”
Mrs. Obama has declined to sit for wide-ranging interviews with several newspapers, including this one, preferring to focus on particular themes. (She gave The New York Times an exclusive interview about the White House vegetable garden, for instance.)
Some political analysts believe Mrs. Obama hopes that her surging popularity will ultimately allow her greater latitude to operate more openly in policy realms that she cares about.
“She’s building up enormous goodwill,” said Paul Costello, who served as an adviser to the former first lady Rosalynn Carter. With such strong support, Mr. Costello said, she might ultimately feel confident enough to “push the envelope.”
For now, Mrs. Obama seems perfectly comfortable with her public persona.
After joking in January that her new job “doesn’t pay much,” Mrs. Obama now typically describes the job of first lady as the best in the White House, saying that even her husband is often jealous of what she gets to do.
“I don’t have to deal with the hard problems every day,” she told a group of schoolchildren this week. “I get to do the fun stuff.”
The New York Times
By RACHEL L. SWARNS
Published: April 24, 2009







